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Wild Winter Swimming: A tonic of our Time

October 6, 2022 Tia Tamblyn
Image by Richard Tamblyn

Image by Richard Tamblyn

Cold water swimming - a tonic of our time.  Social media is awash with stories of rosy faces fresh from salty dips, especially so in the era of Covid-19 when many of us have turned to nature as a form of therapy, soaking up the exhilaration of being exposed to the elements and inspired by the natural landscape.  As the world we know it has been turned on its head, with dramatic changes for many in work and home lives, the great outdoors - and wild swimming in particular - has offered great solace for many, including me.

Lucky enough to live in Cornwall, we have seascapes aplenty to choose from as well as rivers and lakes to dip our toes (and more) into for that chilly hit of happy hormones.  Growing up on the west coast of Scotland did, in hindsight, offer a useful apprenticeship in the joys of cold water immersion and dodging jellyfish.  Yet although I’ve never been far from the sea, it has never beckoned more.  How wonderful that so many people have been drawn to this free, powerful and immediate source of natural therapy.

I’m often asked: where do I swim; do I wear a wetsuit; how long do I stay in for; what are the tricks of the trade for changing post-swim when wild winter winds are whistling around my chattering body.  I have my normal protocols (locally - chasing the sun if there’s any to be found; no, but a long-sleeved swimming costume; various but around 10 mins in winter; wrap towel in hot thermos for a cosy post-swim warm-up) but what I love most about wild swimming is that there is no ‘right’ way and even a momentary dip in chilly waters, with or without a wetsuit, offers huge benefits for both body and mind.

The postive impacts of cold water swimming are discussed at length elsewhere and, rather excitingly, as interest in wild swimming increases so too does the research, with a recent study identifying a link between regular cold water immersion and reduced incidence of dementia.  But outlining the benefits of wild swimming doesn’t actually address a reality of this activity which, let’s face it, puts many off: it’s absolutely freezing (or perhaps not actually below zero unless you’re further North than Cornwall), almost painfully cold at times as you immerse yourself into the ocean or a river, and in so doing become acutely aware of each and every body part.

So what, then, makes cold water swimming so enjoyable?  Partly it’s knowing the myriad of physiological benefits, but it’s more than that.  Despite every nerve ending in the body sending a warning signal to the brain: “Too cold, turn back”, we continue to head seaward whether inching in gradually or with an icy launch.  In that moment there’s an opportunity to push past those uncomfortable feelings and be truly present, feel the body come alive.  The ability to overcome the cold is exhilarating, and I always find there’s a moment of surprise that you have kept going - immersed - then finally begin to acclimatise.  After an initial grimace or operatic warble comes laughter, joy, connection with those you are swimming with.  

As the era of Covid-19 continues (I write this during lockdown #2) and there’s no knowing what the winter ahead will bring, what does cold water swimming have to offer us?  Time in nature, exercise, reducing stress hormones and increasing those that promote a more settled state of mind, a boost to our vitamin D as we venture outside, and the opportunity for precious shared time with friends, lockdown regulations permitting.  

But on top of that I believe wild swimming also represents the opportunity for us to practice going beyond our thoughts and digging deeper, accessing a resilience that lies within all of us yet sometimes becomes clouded by our busy minds.  Just as meditation offers us the chance to step back from our thought patterns by observing them objectively as we sit in quiet, in cold water swimming we are required to over-ride the thoughts that tell us not to go in (because it’s madness and far too cold!) in the knowledge that we will benefit from it.  Showing up for that experience, stepping (or wave-hopping) over the threshold is so emboldening because we’ve shown ourselves we can work our way through this difficult experience, and even emerge the other side feeling better (if a little cooler) for it.  This may seem blithe compared to many of the significant challenges people are facing right now, but at a time when we have lost control over so many facets of our life, taking back control of even the smallest elements can make a big different for us, for our mental health.

I would urge anyone to give cold water swimming a go this coming winter as wellbeing for our bodies and minds.  Take care, follow local guidance on where to swim, be safe, swim with others.  And a confession for anyone who doesn’t live near open water - I only make it to the sea once or twice a week, but I have a cold shower every morning - and to answer your questions: over the bath; no wetsuit; 1 minute; towel on hot rail at the ready.  Enjoy!  

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In Mindful living, Sustainable living Tags sustainable living, Tia Tamblyn, Wild swimming, winter, wellbeing, botelet, Summary 3
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Wild swimming: a winter tonic?

November 26, 2019 Tia Tamblyn
Wild swimming Cornwall Tia Tamblyn

Sea swimming is my therapeutic drug of choice: hard hitting, exhilarating, a great fun bonding experience with friends and - the best bit - no hangover.

Being brought up on the west coat of Scotland, my siblings, friends and I played like otters in the ocean throughout our youth - then I moved away and grew up. What a joy to return to rural living in my late twenties, with the sea a short hop from Botelet, our family home in Cornwall.

As an adult, I believe that sea swimming has quietly been one of the mainstays of my wellbeing, helping to shake me out of negative mindsets and give me a blast of positive, joyful energy. I’ve been wild swimming (ie in the sea, lakes, rivers) with varying degrees of regularity over the past 15 years since I moved to Cornwall: more so pre-kids (sometimes accompanied by a surf board for some very ropey surfing); less frequently but hugely appreciatively while the kids were toddlers and I was on occasion able to slip into the sea; and with some degree of regularity now our children are of school-age either as a family, with my husband Richard, or on a friends date.

Arriving at the threshold of winter it seems a pertinent time to examine what wild swimming may be able to offer us, especially during the colder darker months when those of us lucky enough to live near open water tend to gravitate away from the shoreline. As someone fascinated by what keeps us well, I want to know more about this super wellbeing strategy - why is it so powerful? What psychological and physiological effects does it have? And should we be digging deep and prioritising this beautiful, free, uplifting resource for our winter wellbeing?

Having dipped my toe into the research, even I as a wild-swimming-convert was surprised at the range of benefits that it can have, including:

  • Calming our whole body system - lowering our heart rate and blood pressure, and helping to control blood sugar levels

  • Reducing the production of stress hormones such as cortisol - and ‘sopping up’ excess stress hormones that are present within the body

  • Boosting the production of ‘happy hormones’ such as dopamine and serotonin - helping to improve our mood and reduce depression and anxiety

  • The impact of submersion in cold water directs circulation inward (to keep our core warm) thereby flooding the brain and vital organs with fresh blood carrying oxygen and nutrients and serving to detoxify these areas

  • Immersion in cold water can soothe muscle aches

  • If you go for a decent length swim this can improve muscle and cardiovascular tone, improving all-round fitness without putting undue stress on any area of the body

In my own non-scientific exploration I asked four of my sea-swimming buddies (Ashlyn, Johanneke, Richard, Nell - bios below) for their thoughts on open water swimming:

Why do you wild swim?

Johanneke: it’s in the word isn’t it - it’s the wildness of it that draws me to it. Like today is a pretty wild sea but just to get out there, to get in … it’s amazing.

Ashlyn: I find it really cleansing and I always feel different when I come out. The sea is so much bigger than you, so vast, so changeable. Feeling the energy of the waves against you .. you always feel in touch with the elements.

Richard: Coffee afterwards tastes even better! Last winter I swam in the sea weekly with [my friend] David. I didn’t always feel like going in or setting aside the time. The importance of keeping it up shows if you stop doing it - you are sharply reminded about how much its been keeping your mind on track.

Nell: It’s fun, and cold - brrrrr! I like swimming in winter because there aren’t any sharks!

How often do you manage to swim in open water?

Johanneke: I’ve got some friends trying to do it daily, or at least several times a week. They make it a quick run in in their costumes [without wetsuits] for five minutes and run out. I like to go for a decent swim when I’m in, so more like once a month in winter.

Ashlyn: I aspire to be the Finnish nonagenarian doing it every day, but I’d love right now to do it once a week, that would be amazing. In reality it’s more like monthly right now, plus some SUPing with the family.

Richard: Last winter I swam weekly in the sea, I’ve had a gap recently but am keen to get going again.

Nell: When Mummy and Daddy take me.

How does wild swimming compare with other forms of natural therapy?

Ashlyn: I find it the most efficient form of mood-clearing! It’s remarkably different from pool swimming - I would dutifully feel good about a pool swim, but it wouldn’t feel like I do after a sea swim. There’s a slightly spiritual element - whatever you’re looking for be it fitness, energy, uplift, you can find it in the sea. And there’s something about the sea that brings out the playful side in everyone.

Johanneke: It’s definitely being outside that makes it so special. I find that with any exercise I do, if I’m doing it outside it has another level of impact. It is so beneficial for your health giving you sunlight, fresh air, exercise and the cold shock of the swimming has health benefits.

Richard: Swimming in the pool feels good for fitness, but while I’m doing it I’m just counting lengths. The surprise element of the sea - the tide, the waves, the unknown of what’s below - adds to it. It makes you feel alive - every part of your body.

Nell: Blank face. May need to wait a few years to ask this question.

Where’s your favourite wild swimming spot?

Ashlyn: No brainer, Lantivet Bay. It’s just the most beautiful place.

Johanneke: Lantic Bay - it’s too far just for a quick swim in the winter but it’s a perfect spot especially in the summer, for some reason my kids don’t mind going there despite the steep scramble down to the beach then back up, the views from the top are incredible, the golden sand and blue sea. It reminds me of my childhood beach in Holland, but prettier!

Richard: Porthallow Cove near Talland, it’s where David and I aim for, a 1km swim from Stinkers beach and back. There’s never anyone there. When we arrive we flop like seals on the rocks for a break before getting back in again to swim back. Even on stormy days there’s often a moment of sunshine. You have to be there in the morning to catch the light.

Nell: I like going to Talland Bay because you’re allowed a hot chocolate in the café afterwards!

What stands out through having these conversations is the wholly positive impact that open water swimming has. For me what makes it so special is the immersion in nature, the excitement of stepping into slightly unknown territory (the murky lake, the seaweed-covered rocks) and that it’s a rare activity that cuts across all ages, genders and abilities, one that can be enjoyed in varying ways by everyone from toddlers right the way through (my mother in her late seventies can still regularly be found submerged in the ocean or a local river).

I write this following a sea swim with Ashlyn and Johanneke - a Monday morning date post school-run. I began the day rushed and slightly flustered after a busy and at times emotionally challenging weekend. I felt in a fog, a bit unclear, ok - but I wouldn’t say happy. Following a twenty minute sea swim - today playing in the waves as they crashed down on Talland beach - I feel calm, happy, clear. As I sit at my desk my fingers may still be waiting for some circulation to return, but my whole body is glowing, every cell feels energised and I feel so much better equipped to face the day. I know I need to do this again - soon.

If you too are keen, but new to open water swimming - here are some top tips from myself and my swim buddies:

  • Wear what works for you. It doesn’t matter whether you’re swimming in a bikini, or clad in neoprene from head to toe - there’s no right or wrong, just getting in the water will make you feel great. Do what works for you, if you’re wearing a wetsuit you may well have a longer swim so don’t feel you have to compete in the ‘how cold/brave I am’ stakes. Wetsuit boots and gloves (even hat in the depths of winter) can make it that little bit easier to get in.

  • Swim with others. Find your tribe who like swimming in the same places as you do (remote coastal cove or gentle lake swim), for similar lengths of time (a five minute plunge or a half an hour energetic swim).

  • Keep safe: check tides and the suitability of the area for swimming. Tell a friend or family member where you’re going and check in with them afterwards. Swim with someone else, wear a colourful swim hat so you can be spotted in the water.

  • Get some swim dates in the diary - and stick to them. There will always be reasons not to go wild swimming in winter, so plan ahead and find a tribe who will hold themselves - and in doing so you too! - to the date.

  • My latest discovery: bring a flask of tea with you, wrap your towel around it - and you will have a cosy towel to envelop you when you emerge from the cool waters.

And so this winter, if you are lucky enough to live near open water - or have the chance to visit - could wild swimming form part of your winter wellbeing? I know I want to make it part of mine. Time to dig out the diary and get some dates in, I need more of that natural high …

I’d love to know: what are your views on wild swimming? And where are your favourite spots for an open water dip?

View fullsize Nell's 'freezing fun in January' face
Nell's 'freezing fun in January' face
View fullsize Richard & Otto resting up on rocks
Richard & Otto resting up on rocks
View fullsize Johanneke & Ashlyn striding seaward
Johanneke & Ashlyn striding seaward

With thanks to my swimming tribe for sharing their thoughts, and for holding me to account to keep me swimming even when it’s icy …

Ashlyn Reed (from the beautiful Tredethick, near Lostwithiel)

Johanneke Kodde (GP, lives in Lostwithiel, originally from Holland)

Richard Tamblyn (aka my husband)

Nell Tamblyn (my daughter, age 5)


References:
https://www.stylist.co.uk/life/mental-health-benefits-of-wild-swimming-anxiety-depression-cold-water-river-mind-wellbeing/70305
http://www.wildswimming.co.uk/health-benefits/
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321496.php#15-benefits-of-swimming
https://www.bupa.co.uk/newsroom/ourviews/2017/10/benefits-of-swimming


Images by me and Richard Tamblyn

Tags Wild swimming, swimming, sea swimming, Cornwall, wellbeing, winter, sea, Summary 3
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Positive Touch

November 4, 2019 Tia Tamblyn
Massage Cornwall

Touch is one of the most undervalued senses - we are living in a world where many people are exposed to less touch than ever before, despite being so connected through the digital world.

This sentiment, discussed by Dr Rangan Chatterjee and Professor Francis McGlone in a recent episode of the Feel Better, Live More podcast, struck me. It resonated - not only in terms of my work as a massage therapist, seeing the importance for many people of the simple value of touch - but for myself too. We live in a world where we can feel connected through the digital realm, yet research shows that we are having less and less direct interactions within our friendship groups and communities - even with our partners; these are the relationships through which we touch and are touched - positively, nurturingly - where even the smallest of gestures can make a difference.

The podcast is fascinating, I highly recommend listening. One dimension that was new to me was the knowledge given by Professor McGlone, a neuroscientist, that there are two types of nerve cells through which we experience touch, for simplification these can be termed ‘fast’ and ‘slow’. The ‘fast’ nerve cells are involved with sending quick signals to the brain in order to protect us - for example when we touch something very hot and we immediately let go. The ‘slow’ touch nerves directly impact on how we feel - their major property is to help regulate our emotional states. We have evolved in such a way that we are programmed to want touch - in fact to need it; and yet in today’s world many of us are touch-deprived.

The importance of touch for newborn babies is recognised and skin-to-skin contact for the newborn with both mother and father is widely encouraged immediately following birth - helping to regulate the babies’ breathing, heartbeat and blood sugar levels as well as forging bonds between parents and their child.

But our need for touch doesn’t stop as we grow up - for children or adults. Genuine, nurturing touch (also known as ‘warm touch’) releases neurochemicals; endorphins and hormones including oxytocin which plays a role in creating bonds between people - developing trust, reducing anxiety and forming attachments, be they between friends, families or partners. Touch is a crucial element of our emotional wellbeing.

What is pretty fantastic is that the benefits of positive touch extend to the person giving as well as receiving positive touch. I can vouch for this - I genuinely come away from giving massage therapy feeling calmer, more grounded, less stressed. I often say that being a massage therapist has been the perfect antidote to having three young children (at one point I had three under two years ..) - having that regular commitment to be in a calm, nurturing space where I’m connecting with someone through positive touch. Likewise with my children, if I’m giving them a massage, I definitely feel calmer, more bonded, any signs of stress dissolving. Research has shown that “a person giving a massage experiences as great a reduction in stress hormones as the person on the receiving end” (Psychology Today). It doesn’t mean to say I think that the benefits are equal, but it does show that positive touch is a two-way process.

That said, for touch to be positive (and by that I mean it has to be experienced as such for both parties) there are boundaries and context that need to be acknowledged. Positive touch relies on both parties feeling safe and supported with boundaries respected - and that can be tricky as our ‘positive touch’ barometers - how much touch we feel comfortable with - are all set differently. Some people are very comfortable hugging, others prefer a genuine handshake; as with all human interaction we have to read the context, the person we are with, and choose how to act accordingly. We have all felt overwhelmed by touch that might have been offered with good intention, but felt ‘too much’ for us - for the context, how close to us the person offering it was, the mood we were in.

I’m fascinated by this topic, yet hesitated before writing publicly about it as ‘touch’ has been tainted, it has connotations of inappropriate behaviour. There are important boundaries to be aware of regarding touch, especially regarding children - that absolutely goes without saying. Yet I feel we should not shy away from discussing ‘positive touch’, opening up conversations about what it means, and not letting touch drop away from our society through the pressures of the digital world, or the fear that it could be used inappropriately. I want my child to be hugged by their teacher at primary school when they fall over, I want to welcome people who come for a massage treatment - when it feels right - with a hug, I want to be able to hug my friends’ children without feeling I’m overstepping a mark. For any human interaction to be positive, it needs to be based on tuning-in to the other person and where they are at, it must be appropriate, and it must be authentic; the same goes for touch. But we need to have faith that we can still use touch in this way, for our benefit and for the benefit of those we interact with.

One of the joys of working in the bodywork sector is being able to share positive touch techniques with others - who can then use them within their families. During my Family Head Massage Workshops I’m always moved by the power that creating space for one-to-one time between a parent/carer and their child can have - calming, bonding, grounding. And what’s fascinating - and I didn’t expect when I first began teaching these workshops - is how much the children would also relish their chance to nurture their parents by giving them head massages.

Similarly with the Introduction to Massage courses I run, there’s such a positive energy that comes out of spending a day in a held, safe space where positive touch has been shared, and again it’s wonderful hearing feedback about how people have put these techniques into practice at home.

As Professor McGlone says: “Touch is not just a sentimental human indulgence, it’s a biological necessity”. Perhaps many of us have come to see touch as something additional, something extra, something we’ll make space for ‘if we have time’ rather than an element of our lives and our families’ that is fundamental for our wellbeing.

The podcast on positive touch has got me thinking - I’m already fully subscribed to the benefits that touch can bring - I should be, as a massage therapist! - but what changes might I be able to make to bring more positive touch into my life and those around me?

  • Just as I might make a conscious effort to be kinder in the way I speak or act, so I can try to do with positive touch.

  • Remember the value of direct human interaction - through which positive touch naturally takes place. The digital world is here, it’s important, we rely on it in so many ways. But make sure I’m still creating enough space in my life for direct connections with friends and family - and be mindful how this might play out for my children as they grow up and learn about balancing their own connections with the digital world.

  • With three young children, there can often be arguments or an underlying sense of tension - between the children as someone takes the toy the other was playing with, or my frustration as I ask for the fiftieth time for one of them to put their shoes on as we’re running late for school. Consider whether positive touch can be part of helping to ease the tension and show that the love and bond are still there, even when verbally there’s a tension around, for example, getting a task done.

  • Try to create more space at bedtime with the children for positive touch - using Indian Head Massage techniques that they love, that calm and relax us all. It just means setting a little more time aside for the bedtime routine ..

  • And finally - when appropriate - give that hug.

I’d love to know - what are your views on positive touch? Do you feel we could build in more positive touch to our families and communities?

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References:

  • ‘Feel Better, Live More’ Podcast, Episode 45 - https://www.drchatterjee.com/touch-forgotten-sense-professor-francis-mcglone/

  • ‘The hands-on power of touch’ - https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/jul/31/the-hands-on-power-of-touch-psychology-well-being

  • ‘Skin to Skin with your baby’ - www.babycentre.co.uk/a25017209/skin-to-skin-with-your-baby

  • ‘What is Oxytocin?’ - https://www.hormone.org/your-health-and-hormones/glands-and-hormones-a-to-z/hormones/oxytocin

  • ‘The Power of Touch’ - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/201303/the-power-touch

In Bodywork Tags positive touch, massage therapy, touch, wellbeing, bodywork, massage, Summary 3
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